Hello There,
Here is your pattern. You get close. You get momentum. It starts to actually work. And then you blow it up in some quiet way you can explain away later, and you are back at the start, calling it bad timing.
You self sabotage right before it happens. Every time. And you think you do not know why.
I am going to tell you why. Success has been the fear underneath everything you have ever chosen. Not failure. You have failed and survived it. You are scared of what happens if it actually works, if you become the person you could be, if you have to hold the weight of the thing you say you want. So you quit right before you find out.
This episode goes all the way in. Why every restart is a defense mechanism. The difference between worthy and deserving, and why you are one and not the other. None of us are deserving, that is why we needed Jesus in the first place. But you were born worthy, and that is your birthright, settled before you took a breath. The brain science of the self concept thermostat that cools your life back down every time you start to exceed it. The lobster that has to be soft and exposed to grow. And Peter falling down saying get away from me, I am not worthy, and getting called anyway.
Stop quitting. Stop confusing not deserving with not worthy. Take your hand off the brakes.
Go listen.
Branden LaNette
Podcast Coach
BrandenLaNette.com