You have been waiting to be picked.
Waiting for someone to notice you. Waiting for the person with authority to tap you on the shoulder and say yes, you, you are allowed now. Waiting for validation to show up like a magic wand that finally makes you real.
It is not coming. Nobody is going to wake up tomorrow and live your life for you. There is no committee deciding whether you are finally worthy. That meeting does not exist. The wand is not real.
And here is the part that should stop you cold. You were already chosen. The King already picked you, before you had a single follower or credential or accomplishment. The highest authority that exists already looked at you and said that one, she is mine, I made her for this. And you are out here waiting for a stranger on the internet to confirm what God already settled before you were born.
This episode goes all the way in. The waiting room you built yourself. Why validation never fills the hole even when it comes. The brain science of why waiting to be chosen feels safer than choosing yourself. The unlocked door you keep pretending is locked. And David, chosen from the field while everyone who looked impressive stood in the lineup.
Stop waiting for the world to choose you. You were already chosen. Choose yourself.
Go listen.
Branden LaNette
Podcast Coach
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